Love is an important and beautiful part of the life, no one can live without this even plant and animals also look the source of love. It is a fact that this can fulfill your life with happiness and you enjoy every single moment of your life and also work with the full concentration. Love, this is the only thing which exists on the earth and cannot be define easily in the words. It is an inner feeling of two persons with same intentions. It is also truth that love can improve your health and keep away the depression. Now days in our society it is becoming a general thing that you have a boyfriend or girlfriend. Love has its various forms and it is a greatest blessing of human life. It is an emotion and attraction that occurs between two persons. It plays an important role to strong your relationship whether the relationship between husband and wife or parents and children.

But sometime because of some reasons or without any reason your partner left you, this situation is very difficult for that person. May be he or she left you because of family or caste issue. The conditions become more complex if they start ignoring or do not reply your questions or behaving like a stranger. The person feels lonely and frustrated at this crucial time and can also be cause of depression. It is the most painful condition of a true lover. If the couple doesn’t attached really with each other then it is not a big issue for those persons and they find new one for them. But if they really attached with each other and they want to live their whole life then this condition breaks that person who really loves.

It is the fact that everyone on this earth is not lucky or i can say that it is not possible that you get all things for what you wished. Astrologers says that this situation occur due to the change in condition of planet. Astrologer also believe that astrology services can get lost love back and make your life again happy. Muslim Astrology has best solution and it can help you to get back your love. Muslim Astrology contains various tactics by the use of these tactics Muslim Astrologer can bring happiness again in your life. But choose the best astrologer for these services of astrology so you can meet your partner again.

When the Judgment tarot card is present in a reading, it is required that you look closely to your past behaviors and actions. You should take stock and review all progress carefully. When it comes to matters about love, you have to apply the same set of principals. In a love reading, Judgment instructs you to look towards your relationship and see if it is up to your expectations.

According to tradition, Judgment refers to an important piece of the journey being completed. So a transformation has thus occurred. Now you have a higher level of awareness and maturity and with this comes a higher sense of responsibility and that you will have to be held accountable for past choices and actions. The main goal is that you learn from your experiences to gain the world (the last card in the major arcana).

In these kinds of readings, this card calls for the reevaluation of your current relationships status to see if it is working out or if it is not. Basically, are you growing closer or separating emotionally. This is an important part to any relationship. Open and honest communication is needed and both partners must evaluate if their needs are being met and if the relationship needs more investment from the other person to improve it. Relationships will either fall apart or transform. If it falls apart, Judgment may indicate new beginnings for the near future and that you will not be single long.

On personal levels, both partnered and single individuals may look and see how they attach and relate to romantic significant others. When the Judgment tarot comes up in the reading, you have to reevaluate past and present relations and it is important to clarify what you are searching for in your relationship. It is also important to judge the qualities you do not wish to have in the relationship. So depending on the outcome the Judgment card can be either a good indicator or a negative indicator of your relationship. It all depends on how you evaluate and deem your relationship after you have seen the card in your last tarot card reading.

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Love is the most powerful thing in the world with enormous
potential to give life. For all the power love holds, we still live in a
world that is hungry for love. Everyone is looking for love. We look
for love, think we have found it, and then find ourselves disillusioned
when the feelings go away. Well what does real love look like anyway?
What is the love we all need and want? How will we know when we’ve found
it?

Depending on who’s doing the talking and what is being
expressed, love means different things to different people. Two people
might commit themselves to love each other but have different ideas of
what it really means. Some think of being in love as an unexplainable
feeling that we fall in and out of, especially in today’s society. Love
can also mean a self-sacrificing action on behalf of others. Some use
the word love to refer to a desire for a sexual relationship. Even in
everyday conversation we use the word love to refer to a variety of
things. For instance, I love music or I love my computer or I really
love your hair like that.

Love can be a dangerous word because it
can mean so many different things to different people it can end up
meaning nothing at all. Love makes us vulnerable to being hurt,
misunderstood, embarrassed, or taken advantage of. Some have been so
hurt by elusiveness of love that they’ve given up on it, totally washed
their hands of it.

I hope after reading this article and studying
the scriptures for yourself that you will find love isn’t so elusive
after all. It might help us though to make a distinction between the
different kinds of love before we proceed any further, then focus on the
kind of Christian love the Holy Spirit produces or God’s kind of love.

In
the Greek language there are four words that describe this act of
loving. I don’t particularly care for Greek words because I don’t speak
Greek, but in this case it helps us to understand Christian love better.

The
first is the Eros. It is from this word Eros that we get the word
erotic and romantic. What it is basically is the chemical reaction
between a male and a female. During the New Testament times this word
Eros was associated with lust. Love on this level is usually
self-centered.

The second word is Philia. Philia is the kind of
human love that comes out because we appreciate the goodness of others.
Sometimes we say I love him or her for what they did in my time of need,
or for a community or country. It is not romantic. It is more
gratitude, admiration and respect.

The third word for love is
Storge. This is the love that is shared between family members, most of
the time that is. Between spouses, brothers and sisters, parents and
children. This love is often conditional on some kind of relationship.

And
then there is Agape, the word the Bible uses and the word we are
concerned about here. It is not the I love because I am loved love.
Neither is it the I love you because I need you love. Agape is the kind
of love Jesus showed on the cross. Forgiving those who were persecuting
Him. This love is sacrificial, self-giving, and unmerited by the
recipient.

It loves those who are hard to love. Agape is the
hardest kind of love because it is loving those that we might feel don’t
deserve it, loving even when we know we won’t get it in return. Its the
kind of love that the Holy Spirit produces within us and allows us to
do things that we cannot do by ourselves. No wonder Paul puts it at the
beginning of the list of the Fruit of the Spirit.

One of the first
steps in receiving and releasing God’s kind of love is to recognize the
difference between human love and a true God-kind of love. Man’s
corrupt nature doesn’t have access to God’s love. God is love and any
man or woman who does not have God is separated from true love. Human
love and God’s love are not even in the same class. Basically, human
love is selfish and God’s love is totally unselfish. Human love says,
I’ll love you as long as you do what I want you to. God’s love is
unconditional.

First Corinthians 13:4-8 lists the characteristics
of God’s love. Few understand and appreciate how unique God’s love
really is. We relate God’s love similarly to the way we’ve been loved.
Our bad experiences prevent us from accepting God’s love bringing Him
down to our level thinking His love is conditional or proportional to
our performance. That’s how everyone else loves us, but God’s love is
different. Its like no other love you’ve ever experienced.

God’s
love never fails, even when we do. God’s love is unconditional. We
didn’t do anything to deserve it and therefore, God doesn’t withdraw His
love when we don’t deserve it. God loves us because He is love, not
because we are lovable.

As we explore the characteristics of real
love get ready for a revelation that will change your life. Then make a
decision to renew your mind in the area of God’s love. Ask the Lord to
teach you anew what His love is all about.

Real love is
longsuffering and kind. Charity suffers long, and is kind. The first
characteristic of God s love recorded in 1 Corinthians 13 is
long-suffering and kind. There are two ways to apply these truths. As
Christians, we are to be long-suffering and kind to others, but this
also describes the way God acts toward us. God is love (1 John 4:8), and
the reason we can act in love toward others, is because He first acted
in love toward us (1 John 4:19).

If you think God holds a grudge
with you every time you do something wrong you will hold a grudge with
others who do wrong to you. We give out of what we receive. If we can’t
receive love we can’t give it. God doesn’t ask more of us than what He
is willing to give. He wouldn’t tell us to be long-suffering and kind to
others and then be short tempered with us. No! The Lord is very
long-suffering and kind in His dealings with us. Kindness and
long-suffering are distinguishing characteristics of God’s kind of love
for us.

Real love does not envy. The dictionary defines envy as
discontented desire or resentment aroused by another’s possessions,
achievements, or advantages. A person who is discontent or resents
others who have more things, more talent or a better job, is a person
who does not appreciate God’s love for him. When we receive God’s love
for us, a supernatural contentment settles into our lives that cannot be
affected by the desire for things. Discontentment is envy and is at the
root of all temptation.

Take Adam and Eve as an example. Before
the devil could get them to sin, he had to make them discontent. That
was not easy to do. They had no needs. They had never been hurt or
abused. However he made them believe they were missing out on something.
He made two people, living in paradise dissatisfied with perfection.
That’s amazing!

This shows that contentment isn’t a state of
being, but a state of mind. If perfect people living in a perfect world
could become discontented, then certainly imperfect people living in an
imperfect world can be discontented regardless of how things are going.
We have to learn to be content in all states (Philippines. 4:11). God’s
love will give us the contentment we desire.

Real love is not
boastful or proud. In other words, those who are full of real love don’t
think they are better than others. This characteristic of real love is
the flip side of a love that is not envious or jealous. Jealousy wants
what someone else has, but bragging tries to make others jealous of what
we have. Jealousy puts others down, bragging builds ourselves up. Real
love does not brag about its accomplishments. It is not given to
self-display, not even to carefully worded statements of subtle
self-promotion. King Solomon said it well when he wrote; Let another man
praise you, and not your own mouth (Proverbs 27:2).

Real love
knows how to behave. One of the biggest lies the devil ever sold us is
that love is an over powering feeling that cannot be controlled. However
God’s kind of love never acts in an inappropriate way. To behave
unseemly means to behave indecently or in a shameful manner. The Greek
word that is translated unseemly literally means an indecency. In other
words, God’s kind of love never bares itself in an indecent manner.

How
does behaving improperly relate to the principle of real love referred
to in First Corinthians 13? It reminds us that the nature of real love
will never make inappropriate demands of others. Real love will never
prompt an unmarried person to say, if you love me, you’ll prove it by
giving yourself to me. Real love according to Paul, never pressures
another to do something wrong to prove their loyalty. It seeks the best
for the one loved not the personal gain, pleasure, or control that
manipulation is often designed to achieve.

Real love is not
selfish. The most distinguishing characteristic of the true God kind of
love is that it is not selfish or self-serving. It describes a heart
that is not so consumed with its own interests that it cannot show
concern for the needs and interests of others.

Jesus is the best
example of real love. He showed the kind of real love that is able to
look beyond its own interests and embrace the concerns of others. Jesus
didn’t come to this earth to satisfy Himself. Ultimately, He did receive
great satisfaction by redeeming mankind back to Himself. But the act of
Jesus becoming flesh was for us, not for Him. He left all the splendor
of glory and adoration and came to dwell for 30 years in the most humble
surroundings, endured the scorn and ridicule of the religious
establishment. Then suffered the ultimate rejection of crucifixion and
took all the shame that went with being a condemned criminal. Yet He did
all of this because God so loved the world that He gave his only
begotten son. (John 3:16)

Real love doesn’t have a short fuse. It
is not easily provoked. The next characteristic of real love describes a
love that is not touchy or irritable. Oftentimes this important quality
of love goes out with the wash. After years of shared displeasure,
husbands and wives can become easily aggravated with each other. Parents
shout at their children in frustration. Why do we get provoked?
Sometimes we fester inside because we want what we want, when we want it
and we wont take later for an answer. These temper tantrums provide
evidence of our own selfishness.

There is, however, a time when it
is proper to be emotionally upset and agitated. For example the
attitude of Paul in Acts 17:16. The scripture says while Paul waited for
them at Athens, his spirit was provoked within him when he saw that the
city was given over to idols.

Paul’s provocation was both called
for and loving. The more he saw and thought about the idolatry of the
city, the more concerned and upset he became in behalf of those who were
being hurt and misled by such false religion.

Jesus also was
deeply provoked when He turned over the tables of the temple
moneychangers. He was loving enough to be angered by the commercialism
that was disrupting the Court of the Gentiles in His Fathers House of
Prayer. He cared for those who had lost a quiet place to pray (Mt.
21:12-13). Jesus was not expressing the kind of touchiness and
irritability that signals a lack of love. When He was provoked, it was
only because He was thoughtfully and lovingly aroused to take action
against practices that were hurting the people He loved.

Paul’s
and Jesus’ actions remind us that there is a time to be angry. This
anger, however, needs to be expressed in love, and without sin (Eph.
4:26).

Real love doesn’t keep score and thinks no evil. The Greek
word translated thinks no evil is an accounting term that means to count
up, to take account of as in a ledger or notebook. The evils referred
to are the wrongs or hurts received at the hand of others. The love that
thinks no evil is a love that wont keep records of unkindness, hold
bitter grudges or allow longstanding resentments against others with the
intent of someday getting even, even when the wrongs done against us
are real. When we keep track of wrongs with the intent of making others
pay, we ourselves pay more than we can afford.

Real love does not
keep a record of wrongs. Thinking on the wrongs we suffer from others
magnifies the offense until it becomes bigger than it actually is. We
don’t need to keep a record of wrongs to protect ourselves when we know
that God is in control of the outcome and looking after our needs.

Real
love doesn’t rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth. The word
rejoices means to experience joy or pleasure. Real love does not find
delight in anything God says is wrong. Neither does love take secret
satisfaction in the moral failures of others. Real love does not hide
evil by keeping secrets that need to be exposed. Real love does not pass
along a juicy morsel of someone else’s failure just because it tastes
good to do so. Real love does not gossip to break the monotony, or to
appear knowledgeable, or to feel better about itself by publishing the
news of someone else’s shame. Breaking the news of sin must be for the
good of others rather than to promote a feeding frenzy around someone
else’s embarrassment and pain.

Real love can bear anything. The
word bears comes from a Greek word that means roof. This is an awesome
revelation. Real love covers and protects like a roof covers a house and
protects it from storms. Real love bears the storms of disappointment,
the rains of failure, and the winds of time and circumstance. It
provides a covering that shields from the extremes of cold winters and
hot summer sun. It provides a place of shelter that can withstand the
worst circumstances imaginable.

Real love believes all things. One
of the great indicators of whether or not we are walking in God’s love
is the level of faith we exhibit. Love begets faith. As this verse says,
Love believes all things. Faith worketh by love. (Galatians. 5:6) When
we experience the love God has for us, faith will come as a natural
by-product of His love.

A young child in his father’s arms trusts
his father completely and doesn’t have a care in the world. He doesn’t
struggle to believe for his meals, clothes or needs. His loving father
will take care of it all. That’s the similarity Jesus made to encourage
us to trust God for our needs (Luke 11:11-13). A loving relationship
with our Heavenly Father is the key to a life of faith.

If you
have a problem trusting God in any area of your life that is an
indicator that something is wrong. Like the warning light on the dash of
your car. You don’t try and disconnect the warning light you fix the
problem that caused the light to come on, and then the light will
automatically turn off. Likewise, a lack of faith is a warning light
that indicates you aren’t properly focused on the love of God. Once you
return to the place of intimacy with the Lord, where you are fully aware
of His great love for you, then faith will be so abundant that you can
believe all things.

Real love never quits hoping. Hopelessness is a
terrible thing. God’s Word says, where there is no vision, the people
perish (Proverbs 29:18). Lack of hope is behind most, if not all of the
self-destruction we see in the lives of people today. They don’t believe
they have a future so they throw away today never thinking of the
consequences while all the while they are headed for disaster.

Luck
and fate does not generate hope. It’s only in knowing that a personal,
loving God is working all things for our good (Romans 8:28), that we can
truly find hope. God has a perfect plan for your life. Regardless of
where you are now, no matter how far off the track you may have strayed,
God has a perfect course plotted for you from where you are now, to
where you are supposed to be (Jeremiah 29:11). Believe that God loves
you in spite of what you have, or have not done; and then hope will
spring up in your heart.

Real love endures everything. Life is
full of pressures that repeatedly drive us to and beyond our limits to
cope. We’ve all at one time or another have gone off the deep end so to
say in response to pressure. We excuse it way and justify actions
because of our prideful nature. The truth is where our limit ends God’s
power begins. There is no need for us to feel we must totally rely on
our own resources. God lives in every true believer and has placed His
supernatural love in us so that we can endure all things.

Real
love never fails. I Corinthians 13:8 God is love (l John 4:8) and God
never fails. Individuals may fail to respond to His love and therefore
bear the consequences, but love never fails. Love always prevails in the
end we just need to give it time. The Lord doesn’t force everyone and
everything into obedience. The Lord is long-suffering and gives everyone
an opportunity to repent (2 Peter 3:9-10).

There is another
element to love we cannot forget about and that is forgiveness. Part of
loving someone as Jesus loves is forgiving those who have wronged us or
who have wronged Jesus with their sin. God has not set up His children
as judges of the sins of others, for any one of us could fall at any
time. It is only by the grace of God that we are where we are. Jesus
gives an example of this in John 21, when he reinstates Peter after his
denial. Jesus asked Peter do you love me more than these disciples?
Peter answered that he did indeed love Jesus and our Lord said, then
love, lead, and take care of my sheep. Jesus wants us to love Him and
love and care for each other. His final words to Peter were follow me!!
And that is His word to us today. Follow Him, obey His commands and care
for each other.

Have you experienced real find love? Do you know
where can to find real love? Let me share with you some good news you
are already loved. I am sure you’ve heard this before, but I’ll say
again anyway. For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten
Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting
life. That’s John 3:16.

Jesus said, “Do not worry, saying, what
shall we eat? Or what shall we drink? Or what shall we wear? For all
these things the Gentiles seek. Your heavenly Father knows you need all
these things. But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness,
and all these things shall be added to you (Matthew 6:31-33). We will
never be able to really love others until we believe we are loved in
this way.

Have you taken that first step of finding love in
Christ? Have you entrusted yourself to Him? Have you believed the Bible
when it says Christ died for your sins?

The starting point is to
acknowledge your sin and your need of Christ, who came to seek and to
save that which was lost (Luke 19:10). It is in Christ that we find the
love of God, and it is in Him that we see what it means to live in the
kind of love Paul described. He is the One who calls us not merely to a
higher standard but to let Him live His life through us.

There used to be a great bumper sticker that read, “Have you hugged your kid today?” The message was clear: Reach out and love your children in physical ways.

Touching can convey love, comfort and security. A simple touch can speak volumes, without the need to exchange words. A gentle squeeze of the hand tells us, “It’ll be OK,” and “I’m here for you;” a hair tousle, “I’m proud of you,” and “Good job!;” open hugs and kisses, “You are safe,” and “I love you.”

And when the unabashed expressions of love begin to be considered embarrassing or ‘sissy stuff,’ there are other, less intrusive ways to show affection. For the little bit older child, or the child who does not like hugs or being held, there’s always tickles, clapping games, hand holding and arm stroking.

For pre-teens, a pat on the back or a shoulder massage may be accepted. And then there’s always the grooming technique: a hair tousle or a finger-combing, a straightening of the tie or collar, brushing the hair off her face, may do the trick.

For teens, when touching becomes off-limits, and protests of, “Mom, leave my hair alone!” are heard, more creative measures may need to be found. We may have to use affectionate gestures such as winks, thumbs up, or facial expressions. Sometimes a private message left on e-mail or on the pillow conveys that affectionate connection. And I particularly like the secret codes, such as ‘SYL’ (see you later), and my personal favorite: ‘ILYMTYLM.’ Sorry, it’s just between my son and me!

There are always creative ways to express affection. But what if your child doesn’t want to show affection? I have cringed time and time again, as parents encourage, order or force their child to show affection to Great Aunt Tillie, the hair dresser or even yours truly. I think that children should show affection openly and freely when they feel comfortable to do so. In my case, after meeting a young child for the first time, many parents instruct their child to give me a hug or kiss. When the child refuses, the parent is either embarrassed or angry. I always reassure them that it is perfectly fine, and actually very appropriate that she doesn’t want to kiss a virtual stranger. I caution the parent to allow the child to make that decision for herself.

Whether it’s because of fat, bad breath, a lack of connection or some other reason known only to the child, please be careful not to force affection where it is either not felt or uncomfortable to display. Displays of affection should always be a choice. You can’t go wrong if you take your cue from your child.

Many people are disappointed in their marriages as they assume that things will be smooth-sailing as they take their vows. Unfortunately, marriages have their own challenges. Things don’t work out automatically, and both partners need to really invest in the marriage. In many cases, it takes just a short time for couples to start going slowly apart, almost imperceptibly.

As a wife, you may begin to have your doubts whether that great man is really still passionate about you as he used to be. You may therefore be wondering whether there is anything you can do to ‘make my husband love me’ once more. The fact is that there are some useful steps that will help you if you want to strengthen your marriage in this way.

Make Husband Love Me Tips 1 – Focus on your marriage

We live in a busy world where people have lots of responsibilities. There are many demands that need your attention. Perhaps you have a career that you have to consider. Alternatively, you may be so involved in caring for your kids that you push your husband to the background.

Your husband will take note that he has fallen almost to the bottom of your list of priorities. This is something that he won’t take lightly, and it will greatly influence how he feels about you.

Regardless of how busy you are, you should set some time apart just for you and your husband. This does not necessarily mean that you have to plan for a holiday together. You may even just share an evening without any interruptions. When you give your husband the first priority in such a way, he is bound to start falling in love with you once more.

Make Husband Love Me Tips 2 – Take care of yourself

In many cases, wives do not just put their husbands at the bottom of their priorities. They also usually neglect themselves as well. If you want to influence your husband to love you once more, you should make yourself interesting. Take time to improve yourself.

This does not just mean taking care of your physical appearance. You can pursue your area of interest, enhancing your skills. This includes even going for further studies.

Determine what drove the guy to you in the first place, and be that person he was interested in. When you come to think of it, didn’t you have your own life when you met? Remember that men love independent women. “Make my husband love me” is possible; re-awaken your passions first before you will influence him.

Make Husband Love Me Tips 3 – Give him the kind of treat you would like to receive

If you would like your husband to be kind with you, then be kind with him first of all. Appreciate your husband, and he will love you more. Make him enjoy coming to a comfortable home.